♥ brenda
Hello, my name is Brenda by birth. I really like dressin up. I love books and photography. I hate lizards, insects, things that slime or crawl.Neither do i like gore or violent films.
AM WATCHING MY LIFE FROM FIFTY FEET.
And nope, im not delusional.
screams
Monday, March 26, 2007
i was bored at home.thus decided to feed my brains.
i chanced upon this article about s e x u a l f a n t a s y.
Fantasy by its nature is the container for everything that doesn't happen in our real lives. Most people would not daydream about something they can do. As a result, our fantasies often become the haven for unacceptable desires.
The world of fantasy is a lot like a movie. Being overpowered by a sexual partner in a fantasy is nothing like being overpowered in real life. In the safe world of fantasy, the outcome is pleasure. In the day-to-day world we live in, the outcome is trauma. Fantasy is always distinguished by one outstanding fact: Even when out-of-control in her fantasy, a woman is still in control of what's happening. It's a controlled sense of danger, which may be why total submission is such a popular fantasy to begin with. It could never happen in real life. You would never want it to happen in real life.
Is it any wonder that more women don't openly discuss their fantasies? Take stock of the responses on this blog, then imagine opening up about such wishes to friends or partners in person.
Remember, when it comes to fantasy:
Thoughts are different than behavior.
The world of fantasy is a lot like a movie. Being overpowered by a sexual partner in a fantasy is nothing like being overpowered in real life. In the safe world of fantasy, the outcome is pleasure. In the day-to-day world we live in, the outcome is trauma. Fantasy is always distinguished by one outstanding fact: Even when out-of-control in her fantasy, a woman is still in control of what's happening. It's a controlled sense of danger, which may be why total submission is such a popular fantasy to begin with. It could never happen in real life. You would never want it to happen in real life.
Is it any wonder that more women don't openly discuss their fantasies? Take stock of the responses on this blog, then imagine opening up about such wishes to friends or partners in person.
Remember, when it comes to fantasy:
Thoughts are different than behavior.
Fantasy is different than reality.
Submission is different than rape.
Our fantasies should be a safe haven for our deepest desires. How we choose to act is another matter entirely.
Our fantasies should be a safe haven for our deepest desires. How we choose to act is another matter entirely.
after reading this .
i realised that not many people actually talks about their sexual fantasy.
well.
maybe(only) its in singapore that such beheavior are still not acceptable.
hmms.
woah.
im like so bored that im deprived to reading articles and end up commenting bout it.
i have decided to indulge in 'self-pity'
so im in for isolation mood.
like gg thru solitary confinement.
gwahahaha.
(fret not.im still me)
| You Passed 8th Grade Math |
 Congratulations, you got 9/10 correct! |
hey.im still me.
hate maths ever.
surprised tt i gt 9.
hahahas
hitting at G E O G R A P H Y next.
| You Failed 8th Grade Geography |
 Sorry, you only got 4/10 correct! |
i failed.boo!
lastly...
| You Are 72% Lady |
 Overall, you are a refined lady with excellent manners. But you also know when to relax and not get too serious about etiquette |
im a L A D Y.
i heart my AP ling.
i heart fishy.
i heart jeslyn.
i heart zoee.
(for the invitaion to ECP)
i miss nana.
i miss mama.
i miss heng.
i miss LJY.
i miss susan.
i miss chashao.
i miss zoee.
i miss the GANG.
i miss HPT.
i miss school.
seriously.im bored.
well.
i jus want to go out.
i need a LIFE.<3
